By: Wosoryi Janice Akorfa/IGNews/Ghana
It
has been observed that many people around the world now prefer to have sex
before marriage as this has become their priority.
The notion
has been narrowed down to some part of the Volta Region in Ghana where some
people complained about having sex before marriage.
In
an interview with a victim who gave her name only as Afi, lamented that, they
that refuse to have sex before marriage are losing the men that come their way
day in day out, and this has become headache for them.
She explained further that she lose
some of the men she met previously for the fact that, she declined to play
loose to their demands as they try forcing her to have sex with them in the
name of covenant.
Another lady also explained that a
man once told her to get pregnant for him before he can marry her just because,
he, the man, is afraid that she might not be able to give birth after marriage.
Albert, a 25 years old young man
narrated his part of the issue stating that, he choose to having sex before
marriage to see if the woman is good in
bed or not.
He explained further that, “sometimes
it is for fun and to see if the lady is neat”.
Reverend
Dorcas Gifty of The Only Hope Children Ministry described the issues as disheartening
adding that, some of the ladies also force the men to have sex with them to see
if the man can erect before marriage.
“It
has happened in a certain church where after marriage, the man cannot erect but
the woman is still in the marriage because it is for better for worst” she
added
She
further explained that the Bible stands against sex before marriage. “Anyone
you have sex with, you are connected to that person”
“We should be able to do according to the word
of God and that is the fear of God. Marry before you have sex'' she stressed
Edited by: Sir DY
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